Longtemps, on a cru que l’hymen permettait de déterminer si une jeune fille ou une femme était encore vierge, c’est-à-dire si elle avait déjà eu ou non des rapports sexuels. Mais ce n’est pas exact.
Le premier rapport sexuel
Lors du premier rapport sexuel, l’hymen peut se déchirer ou se rompre, ce qui peut provoquer un léger saignement. Mais cela n’arrive que rarement, car l’hymen est très souple. Il cicatrise vite de manière spontanée.
L’aspect de l’hymen ne permet donc que très rarement de constater si une adolescente ou une femme a déjà eu ou non des relations sexuelles.
Les gynécologues peuvent répondre aux questions sur l’hymen.
The hymen is also called the “maidenhead”: this is because, for many years, people thought that the hymen could reveal whether a girl or woman was still a “maid”, i.e. whether she had ever had sexual intercourse. That isn’t true.
The hymen varies in appearance
In girls going through puberty, the hymen is a soft, elastic border around the entrance to the vagina. The hymen may cover part of the entrance to the vagina, but does not close it off altogether. The hymen varies in appearance, for instance it may be a complete ring or crescent-shaped.
The first time you have sex
The first time you have sex, the hymen may break or tear a little and may bleed slightly. However, this doesn’t happen often because the hymen is very elastic. It heals quickly by itself.
It is thus very rare that the hymen will reveal whether a girl or woman has ever had sexual intercourse.
A gynaecologist can answer any questions you have about your hymen.